My Boy…Friend, ED
I met ED, as you may or may not recall, on July 4, 2001. Just a few days before, a boy in my summer camp had declared that he “liked” me (a very strong proclamation to make at 13) and wanted to be my...
View ArticleSex with ED, or Let Me Be Frank*
[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qPIjyt_ch8] *Just a note for those of you who know my father, no, this has nothing to do with him or the Elektra complex. I’m talking about Eating Disorders, or...
View ArticleThe Disappearing Woman
I know that, at least for me, the idea of sexuality is a huge trigger. My first kiss was preceded by a panic attack in my high school’s “zen garden” and directly followed by a drive home during which I...
View ArticleSex vs. Sexy
So let’s bring this sexuality thing home: If I’m not mistaken (and I’m pretty sure I’m not), part of the reason that fitspo has gained so much traction is the concept that we’re all looking for...
View ArticleSelf-Love and Sex: How to Stop Dating ED
This blog post is part of the Week of Self-Love hosted by Anne-Sophie Reinhardt of annesophie.us. I’ve been thinking a lot about sex and love lately. (Yeah, okay, let’s all be grownups here please…)...
View ArticleIs Skinny Sexy? Men, Women, & the Language of Sex
I had a different plan for today’s post, but something I posted on Facebook (and the reaction it received) prompted me to change course. Here’s a loaded question: is skinny sexy? I posted this article...
View ArticleUNpodcast 102: On Sex and Health: Are You Sacrificing Pleasure for Position?
TL;DR: Go listen to today’s VERY EXPLICIT & NSFW podcast with Billy Procida! Here’s a question: would you buy a product from a health guru that promised to fix your thyroid, give you your period...
View ArticleUNpodcast 106: The 3 Stages of Love: How to Love Your Body
TL;DR Go listen to the podcast with Bryan Reeves! Heads up: I’m writing as a cis, mostly hetero woman, about masculine/feminine as they manifest in the relationship models in which I’ve participated....
View ArticleUNpodcast 117: How to Stop Binge Eating and Be a “Normal” Eater
TL;DR If you want the tools to stop binge eating or emotional eating, go watch this FREE VIDEO TRAINING SERIES from Isabel Foxen Duke: WATCH And check out today’s podcast with Isabel: LISTEN I have a...
View ArticleUNpodcast 121: I Am Not Ashamed, But I’m Supposed to Be
TL;DR Go listen to today’s podcast with Chrystal Bougon! I am not ashamed of who I am. For the first time in my life. I am not ashamed of who I am. And the funny thing is, the louder I get about the...
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